What Uber Sex is and who can request it
Uber Sex is a ride option available in some cities that lets female passengers request a ride from a female driver, and male passengers request a ride from a male driver. The feature appears as a separate option in the Uber app alongside UberX, Uber Comfort, and other ride types. Not all cities have this option — availability depends on whether Uber has launched it in your area and whether enough drivers of the requested gender are online.
The feature is designed to give passengers more control over who drives them. Some passengers prefer this for comfort, safety, or cultural reasons. You do not need to explain why you want it; you straightforward select it from the ride type menu if it is available in your location.
Uber Sex rides cost the same as UberX rides in most markets. Wait times may be longer because the pool of available drivers is smaller — the app will show you an estimated pickup time before you confirm the request.
Key Takeaways
- Uber Sex is available only in certain cities and lets you request a driver who matches your gender.
- The feature appears as a separate ride type in the Uber app, and you select it the same way you would select UberX.
- Pricing is typically the same as UberX, but wait times may be longer because fewer drivers match the gender filter.
- If Uber Sex is not available in your area, you can contact Uber Support to ask whether it will be offered in the future.
How to request an Uber Sex ride
Open the Uber app and tap the ride type selector at the bottom of the screen — this is where you normally choose between UberX, Uber Comfort, and other options. If Uber Sex is available in your city, it will appear as one of the choices. Tap it to select it.
Enter your pickup and dropoff locations as you normally would. The app will show you the estimated fare and pickup time. If you are comfortable with the wait time, tap "Request" to send the ride request to available drivers of your selected gender.
Once a driver accepts, you will see their name, photo, vehicle details, and real-time location on the map — the same information you get with any other Uber ride. You can contact the driver through the in-app messaging or call feature if you need to communicate before they arrive.
Where Uber Sex is and is not available
Uber Sex has been rolled out in select cities around the world, but it is not available everywhere. The feature is most common in cities where Uber has identified demand for gender-matched rides, often based on passenger requests or local market conditions. Cities in Latin America, the Middle East, and parts of Asia have been early adopters of the feature.
To find out whether Uber Sex is available in your city, open the Uber app and look at the ride type menu. If you do not see it listed, it is not currently available in your area. Availability can change over time as Uber expands or adjusts the feature in different markets.
If you want to request that Uber Sex be introduced in your city, you can contact Uber Support through the app. Go to the Help section, select your issue, and explain that you would like this ride type to be available. Uber reviews feedback from users to decide where to launch new features.
What happens if no driver of your selected gender is available
If you request an Uber Sex ride and no drivers of your selected gender are currently online or available, your request will time out after a few minutes. The app will notify you that no drivers are available and will ask whether you want to try again, switch to a different ride type, or cancel.
This is most likely to happen during off-peak hours — early morning, late night, or during slow periods in your city. If you need a ride urgently and Uber Sex drivers are not available, you can switch to UberX or another ride type to get matched with a driver more quickly.
Some passengers set a longer wait time tolerance in their app settings, which can help the system find a matching driver if one is on the way but not when ready nearby. Check your app settings under "Preferences" to see if this option is available in your region.
Safety and privacy with Uber Sex rides
Uber Sex rides follow the same safety features as any other Uber ride. You can share your trip details with a trusted contact, and the driver can see your name and photo just as they would on a standard UberX ride. The gender matching itself does not change Uber's safety tools — you still have access to the emergency button, driver ratings, and the ability to report a problem after the ride.
The feature is optional. If you change your mind after requesting an Uber Sex ride, you can cancel and request a standard UberX ride instead. Cancellation policies are the same as for any other ride type.
Drivers who participate in Uber Sex rides go through the same background checks and vehicle inspections as all Uber drivers. The gender matching is a preference filter, not a separate driver category with different standards.
Pricing and surge pricing for Uber Sex
Uber Sex rides are priced the same as UberX rides in most cities where the feature is available. You pay based on distance, time, and demand — the same formula Uber uses for standard rides. The app shows you the estimated fare before you request the ride, so you know the cost upfront.
During times of high demand, Uber Sex rides can be subject to surge pricing, just like any other ride type. If surge pricing is in effect, the app will show you the multiplier (for example, 1.5x or 2x the normal fare) before you confirm your request. Because the pool of available drivers is smaller for Uber Sex, surge pricing may kick in more quickly during busy periods.
If you want to avoid surge pricing, you can request a standard UberX ride instead, which may have more drivers available and lower fares during peak times.
Cancellation and refund policies
Cancellation policies for Uber Sex rides are the same as for UberX. If you cancel before the driver arrives, you will not be charged. If you cancel after the driver has started driving toward you, Uber may charge a cancellation fee — the amount varies by city but is typically a few dollars.
If a driver cancels after accepting your Uber Sex request, you will not be charged, and you can request another ride. If you are charged a cancellation fee in error, you can contact Uber Support through the app to dispute it. Go to Help, select "Trips & Payments," and choose "Cancellation fee" to file a report.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is Uber Sex available in my city?
Open the Uber app and look at the ride type menu at the bottom of the screen. If Uber Sex appears as an option, it is available in your area. If you do not see it, the feature has not been launched in your city yet. You can contact Uber Support to ask about future availability.
Do I have to explain why I want an Uber Sex ride?
No. You straightforward select the ride type from the menu, and the app matches you with a driver of your selected gender. You do not need to provide a reason or answer any questions about your preference.
What if the driver's gender does not match what I requested?
This should not happen if the feature is working correctly, but if it does, you can cancel the ride without a fee and request another one. If you were charged a cancellation fee, contact Uber Support to report the issue and request a refund.
Can I use Uber Sex if I am traveling with a group?
Uber Sex is designed for individual passengers or small groups that share the same gender preference. If your group has mixed genders, you would need to request a standard UberX ride instead, as Uber Sex matches based on passenger gender.
Is Uber Sex more expensive than regular Uber?
No, Uber Sex rides are priced the same as UberX rides. You pay based on distance, time, and demand. During surge pricing periods, fares may be higher, but that applies to all ride types, not just Uber Sex.